👸 Manifest Princess Treatment

Ever wondered how to truly attract respect and adoration, akin to receiving "princess treatment"? This week's episode of the Hot Genius Guide to Manifesting promises to teach you the art of mastering the balance between masculine and feminine energies. I'll share my personal journey from hyper-masculine behaviors to fully embracing my feminine energy, and how this shift transformed my love life. You'll learn how embodying dark feminine energy can be the key to manifesting the loving and respectful behavior you deserve, even if you're currently single. 

Explore the evolution of chivalry and gender roles, and understand how societal shifts have impacted our perceptions and expectations. We’ll discuss how to change your self-perception and embody a version of yourself that naturally attracts kindness and respect. Learn to differentiate between healthy expectations and entitlement, ensuring that your self-worth comes from within. Tune in for practical tips and insights that will help you cultivate a reality where you receive the princess treatment you deserve!

Chapters

• 0:00 Manifesting Princess Treatment Energy Dynamics
• 9:04 Princess Treatment Expectations in Manifestation

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:00

Welcome back to this week's episode of the Hot Genius Guide to Manifesting. I'm your host, kristina Modafari, and today's episode is my favorite. I've got a lot of favorites, but this one's called Manifest Princess Treatment. And don't worry, I'm going to do Manifest Prince Treatment as well, or King Treatment, but for today it is for the ladies, or for those who want to be a princess, it doesn't matter, it's genderless. So let's get straight into this. Wait, before I do that actually, oh my God, do that Before I do that actually, is that if you are on the other end of this, meaning that you're not after princess treatment and, let's say, one of the boys, and you are curious about listening to what I'm going to be talking about today, then I recommend that you stay here because, honestly, a lot of the things that we're going to discuss in today's episode won't just directly be able to be repurposed into your own unique situation and, even though you won't be able to relate to everything, if you identify more as, like, the masculine or the king or prince archetype, but I think it would be a really good insight for you to understand women, feminine embodiments and people who are magnetic and just the princess archetype in general.

Speaker 1: 1:24

Just putting it out there. Anyway, the first thing I kind of gave it away is that you really got to learn to embody the feminine energy, but especially, especially, the dark feminine energy, and I will also be doing an episode of the dark feminine energy energy, but today's episode is specifically on manifesting princess treatment as if it is your norm, okay, um, and so, when it comes to the feminine energy in this context I'm referring to, you got to stop doing and start being, because how energies work is that, if you can imagine magnets right, there's a negative side, there's a positive side, and in this case, instead of negative and positive, I want you to see the energy of manifesting the energy of masculine and the energy of the feminine. Now, the masculine energy is the initiator, it's the doer Okay. The feminine energy is the, the ender and the receiver okay. And so when you are in the energy of doing, you are accessing masculine energy.

Speaker 1: 2:32

That does not mean you're a masculine person, because masculine and feminine energies are genderless okay. It just means that, even if you are at your core, are a feminine person like myself. It does not mean that I don't have masculine energy inside of me, because I do, and it doesn't mean that I should neglect that part of me? Because I shouldn't, because they are two sides of the same coin. Just, everyone uses those energies in different dynamics, okay, depending on what you are more leaning towards in.

Speaker 1: 3:06

So, even as a feminine woman, imagine if I was just receiving all day in that energy of receiving, and I wouldn't have a business. Do you know what I mean? I wouldn't be recording this podcast, you know, and so that's very impractical and also very unhealthy, because the feminine energy cannot thrive without its own masculine energy. That's not external to them, you know. And the same way that, like, a man who is masculine is the most sexiest and attractive when he's actually connected to his feminine energy, right, and so vice versa, though, because some men are more on the other side, but either way, then he would have to be connected to his masculine energy in order to embrace that feminine, whereas, as, let's say, a feminine woman or it doesn't matter what you identify, as I'm just using this for conversation sakes as a feminine woman for myself, it's really important that I connect to that structure and that initiator and the doing part of me, aka my masculine energy, because it makes me better in my core, leading feminine energy, okay, and so it's a bit of a paradox, but the best way I want you to see it, as you are not one side of the other, you are just a little bit more dominated in one area, which is just a preference of your personality, you know. But when it comes to princess treatment, you have to get good at recognizing these energies and knowing how to turn one on and turn one off, and learning the language and speaking fluently in your own energy field. Okay, because you need to access all parts of yourself in a integrated and holistic way.

Speaker 1: 4:44

And when it comes to manifesting princess treatment, if you're someone who used to be the way I used to be, which was like I sort of had to adapt and survive throughout my life to being hyper-masculine because I had to right, so that also meant, though, I got really good at doing, really bad at being, which then naturally, as a byproduct, made sure I never got princess treatment. In fact, it got to a point where I accidentally was giving men princess treatment, and so that would just turn them off. And if they were more on the feminine side, then I would only embrace that or attract that into my life, and I'm not attracted to that. So my love life was shambles, right, because of that as well. And so when I learned this and I embodied this and I'm like, oh, I can't be doing this anymore. I've got to know how to manage these energies so I can achieve like the highest level of like spiritual hygiene and health, then that was when I could manifest princess treatment in my life. And just so we're clear, I'm single and I still get princess treatment.

Speaker 1: 5:51

It is easier to get princess treatment when you're in a relationship because, logically to your brain, it seems more, I guess, accessible literally because you're in a relationship and someone is like in love with you, right, so you know that you're getting this from a good source. And so, yeah, it's just getting good at being and connecting to your feminine energy and knowing when to shift in each state, right, and the way that you can do this on a practical level is that, let's say, you're going to a restaurant or you're going to a shopping center or something like that and there is a door. Okay, the way that you apply this of like stop doing, start being when you want to manifest princess treatment, right, is you got to pause, like get good at pausing, because that's what being is right, like when you really think about it. Let's do it together right now. Let's pause. Okay, it's a bit awkward, isn't't it? Because we're so used to go, go, go, go go, but when we just pause there, we knew nothing else was happening. We were being. That is the power.

Speaker 1: 6:57

So again, you're at a shopping center or a restaurant and there's a door and there's people walking past. All you got to do is pause. Have a healthy expectation that someone's going to open the door for you. Have your shoulders back, don't be entitled, all right, but have a positive expectation that that's what you deserve, that you actually want someone to open the door for you. Now, it is so attractive to all masculine energies of any sex, of any gender, if they are masculine, okay. If they connect to the masculine energy that you're going to like confuse people's, like sexual orientation, because this shit's so powerful. I'm just saying that because the masculine energy, it's so much more than sex. It's not really about sex. It's just so obsessed with providing, it's obsessed with someone who is so okay with receiving it's.

Speaker 1: 7:49

You know, being someone like, in this case, being a princess, you could say, and like manifesting that treatment, like don't think that people don't want to do that. There are so many people the people you want to do that for you anyway who love that, and it's a trauma response If you feel like you have to, like, I guess, excessively earn your place to be treated well, or, you know, to think that chivalry is dead, or even if it was a lie, like for you not to deserve it. Like, think about it back, you know, in the fifties, where chivalry was so normal, um, the downside there was a lot of downsides to the way women were oppressed. I like that breaks my heart even thinking about. However, nothing in life is black and white and because the women were just so trained to be people pleasers, I guess in a feminine toxic way as well, the good parts that came out of it was women were really good at having that positive expectation from their partners, or the masculine energies to give, to open the door for them, to carry the bags, to think for them, you know. So I just want this to be clear like to not have a black and white, you know, extreme mindset and to see the grays, you know, because, yeah, we can learn a lot from history.

Speaker 1: 9:04

In that case, um, yeah, like I said, despite like the hardship that women went through on on one hand. That's why chivalry is dead now because, you know, in order for, I guess, our society and consciousness to heal, it has to go through different ends of the stream. It needs to experience those extremes ends of the stream. It needs to experience those extremes so it can find its balance as a society and as a consciousness, collectively. We are still in the learning curve, and so that's why now chivalry is so dead, because women have become overly masculine. Don't worry, in time, society is going to be like much more balanced and healthier to the point where it affects all genders, where everyone's going to be like much more balanced and healthier to the point where it affects all genders, where everyone's going to be more connected to this energy, which is incredibly essential, right, and so it's really important that we know this really important difference that it is totally okay to have positive expectation, not entitlement of being looked after.

Speaker 1: 9:59

Another thing you can do to apply this concept and how to manifest more princess treatment in your life is to remember that, in order for us to manifest anything in our reality, we got to change ourselves, right? Because, remember, it's not about manifesting something external from you. It's manifesting a version of you to become a match to the thing that's external to you, because our reality is just a version of you. To become a match to the thing that's external to you, because our reality is just a reflection of our own consciousness. So when you change yourself, you change your reality. So how we can apply that concept into manifesting princess treatment specifically is that you now need to shift and attach yourself fully to this version of you, to this identity of you who sees herself like a princess, right or himself. And so when you can just really start to indulge and explore this version of you and like get more sensual, because that's a big part of this and start to give yourself that princess treatment right, then you'll find that the more that you do this because remember, what we unto to ourselves is undone to the reality and others then people will have no choice but to feel again the sense of pull towards providing you with princess treatment, and it doesn't have to be toxic.

Speaker 1: 11:17

But now let's talk about the difference between entitlement and expectation. So healthy expectations. So you might be someone who's already tried to manifest princess treatment before. Maybe you've had some success, but you can't fully be consistent with it. And so I'm here to tell you why you were wavering and it was kind of a hit and miss, and it's because, when you actually receive the princess treatment, you were in the energy of healthy expectation of you receiving that princess treatment, and the times where you didn't get the princess treatment, you were in the energy of entitlement.

Speaker 1: 12:07

So let's talk about the difference, because this is like everything. This is the foundation of your ability to manifest success in princess treatment, and so what that is is that you got to understand that you are a divine being. Okay, and a divine being does not need validation to remind themselves that it is divine. A divine being just knows it's divine. Therefore, it doesn't need attention, therefore, it doesn't need someone or something external to prove to them that they are a princess or they're worthy of being treated like one. They just know that they are. And because you just know that they are, or you just know that they are, or you just know that you are then this, this need to actually give yourself attention and realizing that, your validation within yourself, that you are divine, being worthy of this beautiful treatment from others and the universe okay, because this doesn't extend to people, it's also the universe, because the universe is a masculine energy. Okay, but you, from that place of, I just know I'm worthy of princess treatment because and I show it because I give myself princess treatment you are now living in the energy of healthy expectation.

Speaker 1: 13:08

The same way, you already know that there's oxygen all around you, right? You don't need someone to constantly tell you hey look, I just checked the oxygen meter, have a sass, we've got oxygen in this room so you can breathe. Now you don't have to do that. That doesn't happen. Instead, you just know it, it's a fact. You don't need proof that there's oxygen around you in order for you to trust that you can take a breath.

Speaker 1: 13:30

This is no different when it comes to manifesting really anything, but in this case, manifesting princess, princess treatment. You already know you don't need proof. You don't need someone to come up with a meter and say, hey, you are worthy of being treated with the utmost level of love and kindness and for people to go the extra mile for you. You don't need that gauge, you just know it. And because you know it, the same way, you know there's oxygen in the room and you have a healthy expectation that, when you know there's oxygen in the room and you have a healthy expectation that when you take in your next breath you're going to get the oxygen in your body right Is the same feeling of having the healthy expectation that someone's going to open the door for you, that you're going to receive princess treatment and it's going to be a norm. That's the healthy expectation and that was probably when you accidentally, I guess was in the energy of receiving princess treatment, and so the times where you were unsuccessful was when you were in entitlement.

Speaker 1: 14:27

So this is the polar opposite. This is one of those days, you know, when you're just feeling really gross inside, you're in a feral mood, and naturally when we're in a feral mood, we feel this desire to gain validation. And I said to you that you're a divine being. It's not about you needing to prove that or earn that. It's really just about you remembering that when we're in feral moods we forget that, and when we forget that, we are seeking that wholeness and we express that through needing attention from others and needing that, I guess, gauge to be like hey, you are a divine being, you deserve to be treated with the utmost love, respect and you know someone going over and beyond for you in order for you to take your next breath, aka in order for you to receive and enjoy and get that princess treatment.

Speaker 1: 15:20

So then, from that place of someone who needs validation, right, needs proof, a gauge, to say you are worthy of princess treatment, you can earn it, you've earned it, you've struggled to it, right, then you, accidentally, will access that entitlement and let me tell you that entitlement energy is repulsive. It's repulsive. No one wants to serve you, no one wants to go above and beyond to you. In fact, they will go the other end of the extreme and someone and people will pick up on that subconsciously and your entitlement energy and even if there's someone who's generous, they'll feel a strong pull to purposely give you less than what you deserve, because once again, you are creating reality. You are manifesting different versions of people in your reality as well.

Speaker 1: 16:09

Okay, and when you can understand that the way to manifest princess treatment is to live in that healthy expectation, the same way you live in a world where you trust that you're going to take the next breath and oxygen will be delivered in your lungs, and you don't need proof of that you know that you have a healthy expectation of that's going to happen every single time you breathe, then you need to get in that same level of certainty when it comes to manifesting princess treatment. And it's totally okay if you have moments where you catch yourself being an entitlement, energy needing validation. Don't shame yourself, just recognize it. It's like, oh, my brain was doing that thing. Nah, I'm divinity. And divinity does not need to be proved, I just am, and you can shift it immediately, right? Because the first law of thermodynamics is that energy cannot be destroyed. It can only be transformed. Well, you, feeling entitled, that's an energy. You can't destroy that emotion, but you've got fuel now to turn that into self-love, self-validation, princess treatment, healthy expectation.

Speaker 1: 17:14

You follow my drift, and so it's really that simple, right, and the way that I'm going to tie this all up in a little bow for you in regards to you, manifesting princess treatment is, once again, is realizing that the universe likes reverse psychology, right, and that is why you always hear that the universe and life itself is one big fat paradox. It's a walking contradiction and something that we need to embrace. That logic is not going to solve any of our problems. In fact, it's only going to be good for mathematics and engineering and that's about it. Okay and so, but when it comes to living life in this mysterious, vast, juicy, fabulous reality that we get to experience as a human right, that we have to let go of things having to make logical sense and go back into our body and feeling and stop doing as much and only doing when you have to, and to release those people-pleasing habits and to be more self-aware and to apply that on a practical level through simply pausing.

Speaker 1: 18:20

If you ever get stuck and like, oh my god, like, how do I actually apply feminine energy to apply seeing myself as a princess, just pause. And the reason why it's so hard for people to do this is because our society, kind of like, has brainwashed us to believe that doing is being loved. You know, the more productive you are, the more worthy you are, and like, until you actually see that as a false lie that it is, you're not just never going to manifest princess treatment, but you're never going to manifest peace, you know. And so, yeah, make sure that you start shifting your identity and attaching yourself to this version of you who is, who naturally gets princess treatment, like it's a fact. See yourself being more at ease with being, with pausing, with being slower and taking your time and and having healthy expectation and not needing attention.

Speaker 1: 19:14

Like I said, the universe loves reverse psychology and validating excuse me, validating yourself entirely. And when you can get to this point of self-validation and the paradox of not needing anyone to see you in that divinity, but just knowing it with all your heart, then you naturally will have a healthy expectation and it won't be entitlement, and you'll see, slowly, slowly, that not only is chivalry not dead, but that you really are that powerful that you influence people, things and environments around you. Okay, so I hope you enjoyed today's episode and I'll speak to you next week. Love you so much. Bye.